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Flyer with a pink-to-orange gradient background. At the top, text reads “BOOK CLUB” and includes the University of Illinois Urbana-Champaign Student Affairs logo. Large bold text says: “TELL ME WHAT YOU LIKE.” Event details follow: “Thursday, November 6, 4:00pm @ WRC.” Below, text reads: “Join the WRC for an honest conversation on sex and relationships after sexual trauma.” On the right is an image of the book Tell Me What You Like: An Honest Discussion of Sex and Intimacy After Sexual Assault by Katie Simon. At the bottom left is a QR code. Next to it, bold text says: “First 10 participants to register receive a free copy of the book.” The footer states: “This event is open to all eligible persons regardless of gender, race, color or national origin.”

Tell Me What You Like Book Club

Event Type
Social/Informal Event
Sponsor
Women's Resources Center
Location
WRC | 616 E Green St, Suite 213
Date
Nov 6, 2025   4:00 - 5:00 pm  
Registration
Register Here
Contact
Gabby Schwartz
E-Mail
gabbysch@illinois.edu
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Join the WRC for a discussion of Katie Simon's,Tell Me What You Like: An Honest Discussion of Sex and Intimacy After Sexual Assault.  

The discussion will take place on Thursday, November 6 from 4-5 PM at the Women's Resources Center (616 E Green St, Suite #213). Limited copies of the book will be given to participants who register & attend the discussion. Priority will be given to student participants (undergraduate & graduate).

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Book description:
Hopeful, groundbreaking, and anchored in true stories, this much-needed book from sexuality journalist and fellow sexual assault survivor Katie Simon delves into the challenges of moving from trauma to healing. Tell Me What You Like will guide sexual assault survivors toward the sex and relationships they want, and speaks to the shift in sexual culture we all need.

Over a decade ago, Katie Simon began seeking out stories of people who faced sexual challenges after sexual trauma—just as she did. Simon interviewed dozens of survivors, and her investigation yielded diverse responses from people of all backgrounds, ultimately confirming that there is no single path toward healing.     

Simon’s research led her to life-changing findings that sexual assault survivors most want to know about, including coping with trauma triggers and traumatic stress symptoms such as anxiety, depression, physical pain, and flashbacks. From embodied consent to self-pleasure, sexual regret, breakups, and beyond, you’ll find answers to all your questions about how sexual trauma affects sex and relationships within these pages, in stories told by survivors who’ve actually been there. 

Millions of survivors across the United States are treated as irreparably broken. Simon offers a positive approach to healing based on empathy and community—and the understanding and tools to navigate trauma and cultivate the sex lives we desire and deserve. The narratives Simon has gathered break down the potential obstacles to rebuilding post-assault, and offer multiple paths forward with optimistic, new approaches to sex after sexual assault. Packed with insights, stories, and advice, this invaluable guide reimagines what sex can look like—not only for survivors, but for all of us. 

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